Stop Surviving Start Living With Freedom

Lawrence V Fernandes

• 01 november 2025
• 9789334343656

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This audiobook is narrated by a digital voice.

Have you ever questioned why children from the same parents can have such contrasting behaviors? One sibling may develop traits like honesty, loyalty, commitment, and integrity, while the other could become a chronic liar, a fake, a gaslighter, a manipulator, or even exhibit narcissistic traits. Some may become people-pleasers, constantly adapting to the expectations of those around them.

This thought-provoking phenomenon raises questions that have long puzzled parents, intellectuals, and researchers alike:

• How can children born from the same parents have diverse personality traits?
• What unknown mysteries create this diversity?
• Who or what determines their personality traits?

This book uncovers the hidden framework that shapes a child's personality at conception. It explores the profound impact parents have—often unknowingly—on their child's emotional and psychological blueprint. The true foundation of personality formation has remained largely overlooked. The illusion was deeply camouflaged and has remained a mystery until now.

The author introduces a groundbreaking perspective on three distinct **Survival Mechanisms**—the wanted child, the partly wanted child, and the unwanted child—each set in motion before birth. The survival traits of the children are detailed in Chapters 17, 18, and 19, which explain the diversity of their personalities. Every individual unconsciously uses one to safeguard their bodies from any possible harm. You will learn how these Survival Mechanisms deeply ingrained patterns that dictate how a person adapts to the world and how two siblings are diverse from each other.

Prepare to view personality formation through a completely new lens. This book unlocks enduring mysteries that have eluded the attention of psychology and other researchers, providing a fresh perspective on the forces that shape who we are.